I’ve been listening to podcasts for over a year now. And I have found that I love them. They have interested, inspired, and informed me. Listening to them, in those moments when my hands were occupied, but my mind was not, has changed my life.
Last year, as I mourned the loss of a family member I had built so much of my life around, I enrolled my then almost eleven year old in school for the first time. I questioned everything, up to and including the meme above at times. It isn’t easy when relationships end. It isn’t simple, or clear cut, or easy to walk away.
I questioned it all.
Was I a good person?
Was I a good mother?
Was I a good teacher?
Was I a good writer?
I cleaned my client’s houses, I listened to the podcasts. I learned.
I changed my covers, fixed glaring errors and dove back into the self-publishing world. As I did this, my daughter’s school conducted placement testing and I learned that not only had I managed to educate her in a reasonably efficient manner, but that, at worst, she was grade-level in math, and at best she scored six grades ahead in science.
She excelled that year in school and I regained the footing I had lost in those months of agonized questioning and fear and doubt. Not just that, but all of sudden, I was selling books.
Not a “oh my god girl, you are a millionaire!” kind of way, but a bright, bright light at the end of the tunnel. A “this is possible, this can be done” kind of way. Every day, I listened to people whose incomes were growing, exponentially.
Joanna Penn – whose income is now in the mid six figures.
Mark Dawson – whose income in book sales alone is around 80k per month
And several others.
And as I listened to them, and implemented so many changes, some effective, some rather expensive – I realized a few things.
- You can be creative AND make money
- I want to write books but I also want some form of security (a.k.a. passive income in the form of rentals or Airbnb properties)
- Whether or like it or not, I need to learn marketing.
And I have kept learning, and trying, and experimenting. And yes, at times I feel as if I’m banging my head against a wall.
I realized too that as the months wore on and I wrote little or nothing that it was a combination of issues that were stopping me…
- My dad – his presence in my life has always caused me to question myself. He thrived on it, sort of like a vampire, and seemed to enjoy unsettling me. This continues, although I have managed to make it clear that he is the problem and not me. This toxic relationship is not one I prefer to continue, but there are economic and logistical issues that stand in the way of moving him into a nursing home. For now, he is an unwilling part of our lives.
- Excuses – damned if I don’t have one for every mountain that appears in my path. But mountains can be climbed. And if I want this bad enough, I need to get the fuck over them.
- Family, projects and more – as much as I want to cut back, I recognize certain parts of my life take at least a chunk of priority. One cute three-year-old who we hope to adopt, a 12-year-old who is back to homeschooling, a wonderful husband and our Airbnb projects.
As I listened to the story of Shayne Silvers, a fellow Missourian who wrote his first book in 2012, and then returned to writing in 2016 with stunning results, I knew it was time to get serious.
To write and be successful, you need:
- A great story, well-written, that appeals to your target readers
- An excellent, well-edited manuscript that isn’t full of errors
- A book cover that reels in readers
- A book blurb that peaks readers interests
- A host of compelling ads that encourage folks to click the buy button
- A subscriber list so you can engage in personal interaction as well as low-key marketing to the readers who are already interested in your writing
- A book magnet – a freebie giveaway that gets folks interested in your series so that they want to read more.
- Interaction/availability – to your fans who want to know more about you or your universe of characters (fiction) or your knowledge (non-fiction)
And while there are some areas that need improvement (editing, some book covers, a bigger subscriber list) I’m on the right track, but now it is time to seriously move forward.
The end of the year always spurs thoughts of how next year should go, and this December is no exception.
I know that I want to stop cleaning houses and that I need to move my dad into a nursing home. That want and that need clash with a very basic issue, that of money.
In order for those two things to happen, I must sell 3,200 books per month. That number was arrived at through some rather labyrinthine calculations, and include setting aside 20% for taxes and 30% for Amazon’s bite of the pie, and an advertising budget that does not exceed 50% of the income I receive from sales.
Like I said, labyrinthine.
As of last month, I sold 124 books. That means I’m at 3.8% of goal.
In total so far this year I’ve sold at least 491 books. That’s a huge difference from last year in which I sold a total of 32 books. That’s an improvement of 1,534% over last year! A big thanks to Stephanie Adams for helping me with that math problem. So, going along with that concept, I need to sell 38,400 books per year or increase my sales from this year by 7,821%.
Here is how I’m going to do it.
The way I figure it, every single stinkin’ day for the next 2-4 years I need to be:
- Writing something
- Learning something (marketing, writing ad copy, improving my writing)
- Editing something
- Marketing something
- Interacting with somebody about writing
Every single day. Without fail.
I can do this.
I’ve been homeless.
I’ve been married to shitty human beings (and even shittier husbands).
I’ve gone through divorce, custody battles, raising one teenager, bankruptcy, and a host of other challenges.
I can do this.