One General Malcontent, Reporting In

It’s Friday, so I figured it was time to report in and update on my progress. Small and measurable, but still, progress.

Books sold: 14 this week, 57 (this month) and total for year: 532

Words written this week: 3,500 (approximatation)

This includes several blog posts, two synopses, several character developments, and around two chapters of actual, you know, words, that folks will someday get to read.

I finished reading Tim Grahl’s book Running Down a Dream. And while at parts I found myself wondering when he was going to really get on with it, in the end I appreciated his candor. The journey to becoming a writer can be full of pitfalls and self-hatred, I know, I’ve found myself there multiple times. He gave me some great ideas at the end of the book on how to move forward, inexorably, from here.

Last night I wrote down in my work journal a list of tips from the back of the book. Here are a couple of them to get you started, but I highly recommend the book for the full list (along with Tim’s own story).

  • What is the most direct path to my goal? (to write at least 500 words every day)
  • Stop doing everything (I’m working on it. Right now the hubs is cooking dinner)
  • No seriously, STOP doing everything and really focus on what you should be doing (go granular, figure out your daily “to do’s”, figure out what is essential, and remove the non-essential.)
  • Create systems for the essential tasks

There’s more, lots more, but I will be focusing on these for now. I’ve already been reducing the things I do, but there is definitely room for improvement. More on this in another post. I’ve also recently added Jeff Goin’s podcast, The Portfolio Life, to my “must listen to” podcasts.He has some good ones on the writing craft as well as profiling interesting writers and other creatives.

P.S. Sorry, Not Sorry If I Offended You

So this is just the weirdest fucking thing and I have to share so that someone will please tell me exactly how this post was offensive, because I’m boondoggled if I understand it. And as a lifelong auto-didact (it means self-learner folks, it isn’t some pervy thing) I really do WANT to understand weird shit like this.

Here is what happened:

This morning, thinking about my husband’s birthday in January, I thought about how I want to take him to somewhere really special for his birthday. He wants sushi, so I thought Why not go somewhere we have never been before?

And at about that same time, someone on the Kansas City Eats Facebook page posted about a restaurant and I thought I’ll ask them! So I wrote:

“Your favorite sushi restaurant…Go!

p.s. I’m trying to find a really good one to take my husband to in January for his 50th birthday. He loves sushi.”

And then I went out and about – work, errands, homeschool, and finally picked up a friend of Em’s who is spending the night. I come back to a huge list of recommendations and this:

Is GO a trigger word? I even searched the internet to try and figure out if I had somehow offended someone. Or are we seriously just getting in a kerfluffle over the word go?

By the time I was home and could check my email, some admin had even turned off the commenting feature on the post, so I couldn’t even ask what the hell was wrong with the word “go.”

And then I realized that I really don’t give a shit. Life is too short to wonder about the weird and freakish eccentricities of others. I mean, I didn’t scream “cockroach!” or “All hail Trump” or anything else incendiary. Just that awful, terrible, ridiculous word…GO.

Well here it is again. Take your offense at the word “GO” and shove it straight up your…

[deep breath]

Hey now, I might swear on my blog. Occasionally. Okay, sometimes more than occasionally. In any case, I decided I didn’t really want to know what grave offense I had committed, offend the group hive mind’s delicate sensibilities, and I exited the group.

Life is just way too short for that kind of silliness.

Back to writing I go. I think I can wring another 500+ words out of today. Maybe one of them will include the word…GO.